Sunday, December 11, 2005

The "Safe" Crush

a safe crush
n. An infatuation with a person, in which, flirting and fantasizing of a future with the crush are permissible based on the fact that the object of one's affection is completely unavailable (they are a friend, stranger, taken, etc.), or so you think. In reality, safe crushes only harbor the illusion of being harmless, since 4 out of 5 will reciprocate varying degrees of feelings back complicating the whole damned thing.
(-Taken from a chapter in WTF? by Amanda & Steph, 2004)

...life never fails to surprise me

1 comment:

Julia said...

Whoa. So true... I'm still a big fan of the "safe crush," but it's true, sometimes you have to work at keeping it "safe." Like, you need to wear a crush condom or something.